How is your weekend unfolding? Did you shovel snow? Or did you have a bed day? Kimberly Wilson talks about that in her books- it’s a day where you stay in bed; read, email, talk on the phone, eat, sleep, snuggle- all of that from bed. Sounds good to me.
Here’s some pictures to show you what my day looked like.
A little of this:
Yes I have flannel sheets on my bed and that spray water bottle is for when he’s not being so cute and cuddly. If you have a cat- you know what I’m talking about.
All those veggies into juice. Yes I drank it.
Lets see- organic spinach, 1 hardboiled egg, garbanzo beans, tuna, onion, avocado-maybe I’m forgetting something. A little Greek dressing. It was good
Things for goodwill!
All in all a good day I think.
I stayed in last night and I had a few moments of feeling like I was boring and lame because I wasn’t going out, but that quickly passed as I realized that we all need down time. Time to organize, reflect, and relax.
So we are almost at February and 2012 is in full force. I’ve read a few blogs recently that talked about how we can choose to live our lives. One talked about your influence on other people-basically that smiling and being kind to a complete stranger can open up so many possibilities. Possibilities for you to find joy, kindness, happiness in your own life- you know what I’m talking about. We can choose to find happiness in our own lives. We can make decisions to move us forwards to the life that we really want.
All of that started to make me think about my work and my life and what it exactly is that I strive to do and who I am striving to be. I want to be kinder and more loving. I want to be authentic.
The answers to questions about who we are, what we want to become, how can we live a vibrant and creative life don’t just necessarily show up when we want them to. So here are some questions you can ask yourself if you’re thinking the same things (because now that you’re reading this you probably are).
- If time, money, education, experience, we no issue and you have zero constraints in the world, what would you do?
- What are you really grateful for?
- What’s one thing you’d choose to do or purse if you knew you couldn’t fail?
- Name 8 of the most valuable things in your life
- What do you really want to have?
- Who do you really want to be?
There is no one answer to these questions. There’s no right answer. These are just some tools to get you thinking. I’m thinking about them too and writing it all down. And maybe next month they’ll be a little different and that’s ok.
Everyday, think as you wake up, today I am fortunate to be alive, I have a precious human life, I am not going to waste it. I am going to use all my energies to develop myself, to expand my heart out to others; to achieve enlightenment for the benefit of all beings. I am going to have kind thoughts towards others, I am not going to get angry or think badly about others. I am going to benefit others as much as I can. ~Dalia Lama
Take the time to stop. Breathe. Smile. Laugh. Let go of a grudge. Let go of anger. Turn off the tv. Plant something. Bake something. Hug someone. Be grateful. Live in the moment.
Happy Saturday <3